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6 August 2020

Am I Introvert?


Introvert
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Assalamualaikum semua! Hai hai!

Hari ni tajuknya aku rasa boleh la agak menarik hehe. Hari tu tetiba benda ni muncul kat feed youtube aku so tertengok and datang la idea nak buat tajuk ni. Plus, aku baru je cakap haritu kat entri perkenalan sebelum ni nak post pasal introvert kan, so here it is! Tajuk introvert ni sebenarnya memang dah lama jugak aku nak buat tapi tertangguh, which first takde idea pastu,, em entah la hahahaha. Okay la aku tak nak cakap panjang so kita terus to the topic today, which is about => 10 Signs of Introvert. (credit to this yt link).

(psst prepare yourself coz this entri is kinda long hehe)

So basically from that source, introvert ada 10 signs, yang top I guess. Sebab I believe there's more than that (because I am kinda introvert so yeah). And they also said that, it is rare in the world to have a person with 100% introvert. So like from this signs, kita kira personaliti mana yang kita ada, and count it as percentage. Lebih kurang macam tu la. But sorry if I was mistaken. This kinda like to test our personality. Sebab kadang orang duk kata dia ni introvert padahal tak juga. I ada la baca this saying.

Actually walaupun orang tu kata dia introvert tapi sebenarnya dia juga boleh jadi extrovert. It just that he/she tu lebih dominant kepada introvert and percentage of being extrovert is just low. Well, I think that's true. So topik ni more likely aku nak cakap based on my personality la and my view, where I want to say that, I'm not totally introvert.

So here are the signs of introvert:


1. Tired from too much active time

Are you really an introvert? - Anthony Shaw - Medium
Source: Anthony Shaw

Honestly... sometimes la. But sometimes I don't get tired but I love it instead. So for this point, 50-50 I guess. This point aku tak boleh nak cakap banyak sebab aku tak terasa relate sangat dengan diri aku huhu.

2. Enjoy time alone

What Is an Introvert? Personality, Characteristics, Type, and More
Source: Healthline

Hmm, this too.. shall pass. Hahahaha tak macam introvert aku kan? Sabar sabar, baru dua tak habis lagi. Tapi yang ini, kadang tu boleh la aku prefer alone but I don't like to be alone sangat, sebab nanti rasa lonely. Even if duduk rumah, for me better ada orang kat rumah though aku duduk kat bilik je ke camtu. Tak bosan ke weh spend time sorang sorang?? Tapi tu la, ada orang suka kann so biar laa.. Masing-masing punya character.

Oh tapi kadang aku suka jugak spend time sorang2, macam pergi mall sorang boleh aje. Sebab kan, aku ni jenis suka jalannnnn aje ikut suka so aku takut la kalau pergi dengan kawan ke or sesiapa la kan, nanti dia uncomfortable aku duk jalan sana sini. Bosan ke apa ke kann. And aku ni kalau nak time alone biasanya bila aku marah or depressed or sad, something like that la. So, point ni pun 50-50 la hehe.

3. Constant inner monologue

6 Illustrations That Show What It's Like in an Introvert's Head
Source: Liz Fosslien and Mollie West

OKAY THIS ONE I CAN RELATE 100%!

Serius, aku memang banyak bermonolog sendiri. Kadang kat otak aku ni berjuta cerita ada. Kadang cakap dengan diri sendiri, kadang bila tengok orang lain pun boleh monolog, kadang aku tengah menulis  ke cari apa-apa ke kat internet pun aku boleh duk monolog sendiri sambil-sambil tu hahahaha amazing kan πŸ˜‚

Aku rasa duduk tak buat apa pun boleh tiba-tiba bermonolog sendiri. Introvert yang ada personaliti ni dia macam ada dunia sendiri tau dalam minda dia ni. Itu yang dia boleh duk bermonolog. Yang ada personaliti ni je tahu rasanya, boleh relate hehe.

Oh and one more thing. As in picture, that guy said that the girl is so quiet. You know, introvert ni tend to think lebihhh masa, fikir macam-macam sebelum nak cakap. "kalau aku cakap macam ni takpe ke?", "okay ke ke kalau aku tanya macam tu?", dia nampak friendly, tegur ke tak tegur ke tak..". Macam-macam la. Lepas tu kesudahannya tak cakap apa-apa πŸ˜‚ Itu yang terjadinya pendiam hahaha padahal duk overthinking kat otak tu. Kira introvert ni nak cakap akan fikir dulu la. Thoughtful pun boleh dikatakan macam tu la hehe. But sometimes tak jugak kan hahaha.

Same like me, tapi kalau orang yang close dengan aku or someone yang aku comfortable kadang aku pun main sembur hahahaha. But still, for this point, 100% relate! :p

4. You write

Free Cartoon Person Writing, Download Free Clip Art, Free Clip Art on  Clipart Library

Alright, this point pun aku agree! Dari dulu aku suka juga la bab writing ni (tapi karangan time sekolah tak termasuk la please πŸ˜‚). Aku enjoy writing benda yang aku suka or yang aku rasa aku nak luahkan. And to be honest, aku dulu adalah seorang diari girl hehe. Since sekolah rendah sampai menengah aku tulis diari. Masuk asasi mula la malas hahahaha.

Haa tapi one of the important point here! Writing is kinda the reason of how this blog was established 😊 Dulu aku suka writing cuma sekarang kadang makin malas kan hahaha plus sebab kadang takde idea nak writing huhu. Writing is kinda like the way aku luahkan perasaan. At times bila aku rasa macam marah dengan diri sendiri, I would write something on my phone/laptop. My feeling that time.

So, yang ni aku boleh relate about 80-90% la kott.

5. Observer

Okay! Yang ini pun memang aku laaa. Aku tak tahu kenapa tapi aku suka observe orang. Sorry to anyone yang kena observe dengan aku huhu. I have this kind of habits. Contoh la kan, sometimes bila aku duk berdiri dalam train ke apa kan, aku suka tengok orang. Pastu mula la aku bermonolog dalam hati hahaha. Aku ni agak observant dengan orang. Kadang aku duk berdiri tunggu bas ke, tunggu train ke, aku tengok someone, tengok cara dressing dia, make up, personaliti dia. But of course everytime aku tengok, I'm trying not to be prejudice 😊 Sangka baik la gituu. Pastu kadang dengan benda ke bangunan pun aku suka duk observe hahahaha. Duk tengok iklan ke apa ke, kan.. Oh tapi kan, I don't know why but sometimes aku suka duk tengok, baca notis kat board πŸ˜‚ Yelaa takde buat apa duk baca notis la hahaha.

Observer? Yes!

6. Feel alone in a crowd

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Source: introvertdoodles

This too! I can relate this very well. You know, aku kadang suka benda social event ni tapi masalahnya! Aku ni kalau event yang stranger aku tak reti bergaul. Pastu haa duduk la kau sorang-sorang. Tapi tu la, kadang kalau pergi kawan yang kau kenal but not really close, sama je. Why?

Sebab pendiam. Aku ni memang pendiam, so kadang aku tak tahu nak borak apa. Nak borak pasal ni ke, pasal tu ke, duk fikir sampai apa pun tak terucap. Nak approach stranger tak tahu, malu pun ye. Yela tegur tegur pastu?? Hai hai bye bye. Hmmm....

So yeah, I always feel alone in crowd. Bayangkan la orang lain duk borak, engkau taktahu nak cakap apa duk diam jee. Awkward sorang sorang. Kadang tu orang ajak borak, okay je. Pastu datang join nak borak pasal apa eh? hahaha aku takde topik. Unless like we have same interest. For example, interest aku on kpop and so jumpa this new friend aku kenal kat Twitter. Maybe jumpa tu boleh la berkenalan and fangirl hehehe.

But still, sometimes bagi aku, kena ada orang approach aku dulu sebab aku tak retiii 😭 Oh ya pastu maybe sebab age gap plus contoh dia dah bekerja and aku still study like what to relate?? Aku rasa macam ada barrier gitu :'))

Well, tak semua orang faham kan. Anyway here I just include another cartoon. hehehe

The Journey From Extrovert to Introvert | by James Harvey | The  Coffeelicious | Medium

But anyway, this one also agreed!

7. Dislike small talk

I'm not sure what means by small talk. Tapi kalau ikut youtube tu, macam simple greeting, or benda surface gitu. Bukan deep conversation. Well, kalau aku... Tak kisah kot asal benda yang aku minat ke or personal ke friends to friends. Jangan benda business ke apa sudah la itu memang aku tak minat ah cerita dia πŸ˜‚

To me, guess I'm fine with anything. Tapi tu la kadangnya aku more like listening than talking huhu. tengok mood la.

8. Avoid social events

Hmm, avoiding maybe tak sangat la.. Aku takde la kata nak avoid, aku suka juga la pergi sebab aku teringin nak make friends. TAPI TULA! Macam aku cakap, aku tak reti sobsob. Nanti aku pergi duk hujung penjuru jugak sorang sorang. Aku ni jenis NAK PERGI social events, tapi TAKUT nak socialize + IDK how to approach people.

So macam on verge nak tak nak la gitu. 50-50 la kan kalau macam ni :p

9. Others think you are shy/lonely

I think so... Shy, YES I AM. Lonely, HALF-HALF. Hahahaha lonely ni aku tak tahu macam mana nak describe. Pemalu yes aku mengaku. But at times aku lagi berani dari orang lain, in terms yang lain la hahaha. I mean like, not the talking one, more like on action maybe?? Hm entah la hihi.

Tapi mungkin ada betulnya. Because I am a shy person, quiet, people don't really approach me. Some even scared or intimidate maybe... That's kinda a fact, because one of my friend (guy) told me that he was kinda scared to approach/talk to me at first, before we become a friend that can talk lol. Btw, he's my practical mate so we got to talk.

Anyway, I'm not a scary person okay. If we got that 'click', I believe we'll get along well :)

10. Small friend group

11 Comics That Will Help You Decide If You're An Introvert Or Extrovert |  Bored Panda
Em firstly, this pic kinda me but not really me la hahaha.

Well.... boleh la, kott? Aku ni kan, jenis tak berapa contact sangat dengan orang. Sebab aku tak tahu nak cakap apaa envious tau dengan orang lain yang boleh cakap apa jeee ada aje idea nak borakkk share macam-macam 😭 Pelik kan aku ni tapi tu la aku huhuhu. So yeah by that said, aku ni tak ramai kawan rapat. Ada tu memang la, tapi tak la selalu chat ke apa ke. Also friend yang boleh cerita masalah, I'm envious of that :')

Maybe sebab aku ni pun bukan jenis yang senang open up kat orang. Aku bukan jenis orang yang suka buka cerita, why?? Maybe sebab aku OVERTHINKING! Haa satu lagi personaliti introvert. Hehe. But yeah. Sebab aku kadang selalu fikir apa orang akan fikir or cakap pasal aku, boleh ke tak kalau aku cerita. People's judges. I know bila kata macam close friend ke apa ke, you kinda should trust her/him la kan.. (tho sometimes your own friend/close one can't be trusted too) The thing is, dengan friends or family pun sama, dengan stranger lagi la aku duk fikir apa orang akan fikir.

I think, I never open up to anyone. I bottled up most of everything :))

And that's also kinda the reason why aku blogging. Apa yang aku rasa nak cakap aku luahkan aje kat sini. Tapi tu dulu la kan. Oh and to be honest la kan.. As you know, aku ni minat korea kan. So ada laa fan account yang aku buat, and from that, I make some friends. To me, sometimes in that world, aku boleh express semua benda. People may judge me, but idk in that world aku macam lantak kau la. People don't know the real you in real life. Gituu.. Haa cakap pasal ni, aku ada idea dah topik untuk next entri. Eh tiba ek hahahaha.

Fuhh, I think maybe I'm exposing myself too much here. Guys, keep my secret okay hihi :p

Okay guys, that's all from me. Sorry agak panjang meleret huhu. So, from this all aku boleh conclude introvert aku about 60-70% maybe?? So another half tu extrovert, yeah boleh dikatakan begitu laa walaupun nampak tak sebegitu hahaha.

Haa jadi korang dah baca ni, agak-agak introvert personaliti korang berapa percent? Boleh la komen bawah korang punya score tu hihi. Score tu macam fun fun aje la, don't take it serious sebab aku ni bukan pakar. Atau nak share yourself as introvert pun boleh aje πŸ˜„

Alright, thanks for reading. See you guys next time!

2 comments:

  1. well me is ambivert . tapi i have kawan yg introvert and best sembang dengn dorang bcs the way doran fikir unik, and mcm sincere

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    1. Wuu I see.. it's nice to hear your thoughts on your introvert friend ^^ introvert ni okay je bila ajak sembang kan hehe

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